What Makes A Great Tutor

?id? Having tutored students privately since 1998, when I was a freshman at Harvard University (and full-time since 2002), I have seen many tutors come and go. Some tutors are very good at what they do, others not so good, and sometimes it's hard to tell exactly why this is so.Tutoring is a booming business, and every year more and more families hire private tutors. Tutoring allows naturally skilled teachers to hone their craft without having to earn a teaching certificate (which in some states is extremely difficult and time consuming, and often has very little to do with teaching) or presiding over an overcrowded classroom where discipline takes priority over learning. Great tutors can come from all walks of life, and they don't necessarily have prior teaching or tutoring experience (though experience is obviously helpful). It doesn't require a graduate degree or a laborious and bureaucratic certification process, so there are very few barriers to entry.On the other hand, it is often d ifficult for students and parents to find a skilled, competent tutor because there are no well-defined requirements or qualifications for tutors. Companies such as Princeton Review and Kaplan make a fortune off hiring college-age kids, sending them to a weekend training course, then calling them certified and charging over $100/hr for their services (while paying the tutors only around 15% of what they charge). Thankfully, parents are starting to wise up to this marketing scheme after being burned by too many negative experiences with these inexperienced tutors.(By contrast, instead of indoctrinating our tutors with a one size fits all method of teaching, we allow our tutors to develop their own teaching methods and styles. Of course, we do provide guidance, materials and training, but we know that tutoring is an art to be mastered, not a presentation to be memorized. This is why many of our tutors were former teachers or counselors in the local school system well before they became tutors. We also pay our tutors very well for their services, and keep close track of their experience as well as their results.)While the nationally-franchised test-prep companies are indeed quite unreliable, it's still not safe to assume that all smaller companies are trustworthy. Many smaller tutoring companies will boast that all of their tutors scored in the 99th percentile of a standardized test, or some similar claim, but I never understood the purpose of this policy (although I suspect it is simply used as an attempt to impress potential clients). The truth is that a great test score has very little to do with one's ability to actually teach others how to take that test. Parents: think about the students who had the best scores in your high school class on the SAT. In many cases, this person had little or no social skills, a Napoleon-Dynamite type character. Would you really want this person tutoring your child Only a handful of tutors nationwide can combine 99th percentile scores with 99th percentile tutoring/consulting skills (as a student of mathematics I will tell you that's approximately one in ten thousand), and that's why these rare tutors can command such high hourly rates and are so hard to find.This is the type of tutor I aspire to be, and I hope that all of our tutors aspire to bebut in a pinch I'll take personality and communication skills over extreme book smarts, especially for students below 90th percentile. (Note: students above 90th percentile should invest in a skilled tutor with very high scores (97-99th percentile) and many years' experience or the student will probably be bored and unsatisfied).Obviously, tutors should always have excellent academic qualifications, because it is imperative that they understand the material inside and out. But I'd much rather have a patient, personable and enthusiastic tutor who scored in the 95th percentile than a socially inept introvert who scored a perfect 2400 on the SAT! Sometimes, the best tu tors are those who struggled in a subject, only to overcome those struggles, because these types of tutors genuinely understand the obstacles to learning that many students face.A classic example of this paradox is math tutoring. There are plenty of people out there who are naturally talented at mathbut often, the more talented the tutor, the less likely he/she is able to explain mathematical concepts to others. In the same way that great athletes rarely make great coaches, incredibly gifted mathematics students often make poor tutors because they possess an innate understanding of math that they can't quite explain to others. When a student doesn't understand the tutor's explanation, the tutor will often become frustrated and resort to platitudes such as keep practicing and you'll figure it out. Meanwhile, those of us who studied for 3 hours a night to barely squeak out an A- in AP Calculus can better understand the struggles that math students face..so we can teach you exactly how to overcome those struggles too. This is why the vast majority of McElroy Tutoring's business comes from word-of-mouth: great scores are a plus, but there is no substitute for the recommendation of a trusted friend who saw great results with one of our tutors.So, without further ado, I've outlined eight key characteristics that you should look for in any tutor you hire (in addition to the obvious requirement of intelligence). These are the same characteristics that I look for in all McElroy Tutoring tutors.1) EXPERIENCEObviously, as in any business, there is no substitute for experience. Parents and students have finally started to realize that the best tutors don't work for large tutoring companies such as Ivy West, Kaplan or Princeton Review. The reason is simple: these companies pay their tutors very little, so the best tutors don't stick around for very long or gain much teaching experience because they know they can make a better living on their own. Most of the truly talented tutors who work for these companies soon quit after realizing that they can work for themselves, charge half as much, and make twice as much money! So that means that you should look for independent tutors, right? Yesbut make sure to do your research. Watch out for the tutor who claims 10 years of experience, because this could mean that he tutored his cousin one time 10 years ago, and hasn't had a student since! Obviously that's an extreme example, but this credibility gap is why it is often hard to find a good tutor through Google and other online sources, and the big-name tutoring companies are able to make such a killing from parents: it's hard to know where to look and what time of tutor to look for. When interviewing potential tutors over the phone or in person, one should ask how many students the tutors have worked with, how many hours per week they tutor, and whether they can provide references. These stats are much better indicators of a tutor's true tutoring experience, because many tutors have full-time jobs and only work with students for an hour or two per week. Full-time tutors like myself are harder to find, but they are usually worth the extra cost because of their superior level of experience. The best tutors often work for smaller companies (such as my company, McElroy Tutoring) because they are paid well and have the freedom to shape their own curriculums. And it's easier for parents because we can independently verify each tutor's experience and results. If a tutor doesn't work out, no problemwe'll send you a new one until we find a good match. And as always, you will never have to pay for more than one lesson at a time.2) ENTHUSIASMParents and students should seek a tutor who is happy to show up to work every day, and who loves his/her job. This is why our tutor compensation packages are among the best in the countrywe believe that a happy, well-paid tutor is the best kind of tutor there is. I love my job, and I want everyone who works f or McElroy Tutoring to love his/her job as well.3) COMMUNICATION SKILLSA skilled tutor knows that every student has unique needs, and that the lessons and explanations that work for one student may not work for another. Tutors should be able to communicate concepts to students in a variety of ways, using a range of analogies, metaphors and similes that relate to the student's own talents and experiences. For example, I have a great deal of experience as an athlete and musician, so I use my knowledge in these two areas to help relate my lessons to students. A great essay can be compared to a jazz standard, for example, or the SAT-prep process can be compared to training for a marathon.4) PATIENCEPatience, patience, patience. It's a quality that tutors absolutely must possess, or they will not last very long in this business. Too many tutors believe that their performance is judged by the volume of material that they cover in each session. To the contrary, some of the most effective t utoring sessions are those where the tutor does not move on until the student has completely absorbed what the tutor is trying to convey. Many high school students just want to get the lesson over with, so they rush through each problem like it is a race. Experienced tutors know that they cannot allow this to happen. They assure their students that the session will not end any sooner if they rush, and this encourages the student to slow down, to relax, and most importantly, to listen and learn.5) ADAPTABILITYGreat tutors have flexible schedules and flexible minds. They are able to craft lesson plans on the fly or make an adjustment if the student forgot his or her PSAT booklet or didn't get a chance to do the homework. They know that pre-set lessons and one size fits all methods dittos aren't really much help, and that the use of these crutches is simply the sign of a lazy tutor (or an inexperienced one). Beware of any tutor who reads lessons from a textbook or a notebookif they und erstand the material inside and out, they shouldn't have to consult the manual every 10 seconds.6) HONESTYBy the same token, if a tutor does not quite understand a question, he/she should not be embarrassed to admit it. Many tutors are afraid to admit any weakness or lack of knowledge, for fear of being fired or seen as incompetent. But the truth is that tutors who are able to admit their shortcomings are better respected by their clients. Students like it when you don't understand a problem every once in a whileit shows that you are human too! Elite tutors embrace the opportunity to learn something new, and they are skilled at thinking out loud so that they can work through these difficult questions together with the student. If they cannot figure out the answer to a question during the tutoring session, they write it down, take it home, and figure it out on their own time so they can explain the concept to the student during the next tutoring session.7) INTUITIONSkilled tutors hav e an innate ability to read their students' attitudes and states of mind. An example of this is when a tutor explains a concept to a student, then asks (as they should) if the student has understood their explanation. Often, the student will say yes, but does not really understand. (Students sometimes say yes when they mean no.) Why does this happen? Well, for a number of reasons; sometimes students are embarrassed to admit lack of knowledge, or sometimes they are bored and just want to move along. But regardless of the reason, great tutors can usually tell from experience and from the student's facial expressions that the student doesn't really get it. So they should either repeat the point in a different way or ask them to explain what was said back to the tutor to make sure they understood. Other times, a student will arrive at the lesson feeling exhausted from sports, homework, lack of sleep, or all three! Pushing tired students too hard will be counterproductive, so in these ty pes of situations tutors should assign a low-stress activity or work on reviewing familiar concepts. On other days, students arrive at a session with a high energy level, so the tutors must meet this enthusiasm with their own, and give the student as much information as possible. Tutors should know when to give students a break by stopping for a moment to ask them about their lives or see how their classes are going. Knowing when to take short breaks and when to vary the material is one of the keys to a productive tutoring session. Of course, this type of sixth sense for reading students cannot be taught, and is only learned from years of tutoring experience.8) SINCERITYFinally, tutors should have a sincere desire to help students reach their fullest potential. Tutors must remember that the business of tutoring is not about themit is about the student. Prospective tutors: yes, it's true that you can make a very good living as a tutor. But if you're only planning on becoming a tutor for the money, go become a real estate broker instead. To become a great tutor you must care about your students' success as much as your own!(reposted from 2007) What Makes A Great Tutor ?id? Having tutored students privately since 1998, when I was a freshman at Harvard University (and full-time since 2002), I have seen many tutors come and go. Some tutors are very good at what they do, others not so good, and sometimes its hard to tell exactly why this is so.Tutoring is a booming business, and every year more and more families hire private tutors. Tutoring allows naturally skilled teachers to hone their craft without having to earn a teaching certificate (which in some states is extremely difficult and time consuming, and often has very little to do with teaching) or presiding over an overcrowded classroom where discipline takes priority over learning. Great tutors can come from all walks of life, and they dont necessarily have prior teaching or tutoring experience (though experience is obviously helpful). It doesnt require a graduate degree or a laborious and bureaucratic certification process, so there are very few barriers to entry.On the other hand, it is often diff icult for students and parents to find a skilled, competent tutor because there are no well-defined requirements or qualifications for tutors. Companies such as Princeton Review and Kaplan make a fortune off hiring college-age kids, sending them to a weekend training course, then calling them certified and charging over $100/hr for their services (while paying the tutors only around 15% of what they charge). Thankfully, parents are starting to wise up to this marketing scheme after being burned by too many negative experiences with these inexperienced tutors.(By contrast, instead of indoctrinating our tutors with a one size fits all method of teaching, we allow our tutors to develop their own teaching methods and styles. Of course, we do provide guidance, materials and training, but we know that tutoring is an art to be mastered, not a presentation to be memorized. This is why many of our tutors were former teachers or counselors in the local school system well before they became tu tors. We also pay our tutors very well for their services, and keep close track of their experience as well as their results.)While the nationally-franchised test-prep companies are indeed quite unreliable, its still not safe to assume that all smaller companies are trustworthy. Many smaller tutoring companies will boast that all of their tutors scored in the 99th percentile of a standardized test, or some similar claim, but I never understood the purpose of this policy (although I suspect it is simply used as an attempt to impress potential clients). The truth is that a great test score has very little to do with ones ability to actually teach others how to take that test. Parents: think about the students who had the best scores in your high school class on the SAT. In many cases, this person had little or no social skills, a Napoleon-Dynamite type character. Would you really want this person tutoring your child Only a handful of tutors nationwide can combine 99th percentile score s with 99th percentile tutoring/consulting skills (as a student of mathematics I will tell you thats approximately one in ten thousand), and thats why these rare tutors can command such high hourly rates and are so hard to find.This is the type of tutor I aspire to be, and I hope that all of our tutors aspire to bebut in a pinch Ill take personality and communication skills over extreme book smarts, especially for students below 90th percentile. (Note: students above 90th percentile should invest in a skilled tutor with very high scores (97-99th percentile) and many years experience or the student will probably be bored and unsatisfied).Obviously, tutors should always have excellent academic qualifications, because it is imperative that they understand the material inside and out. But Id much rather have a patient, personable and enthusiastic tutor who scored in the 95th percentile than a socially inept introvert who scored a perfect 2400 on the SAT! Sometimes, the best tutors are t hose who struggled in a subject, only to overcome those struggles, because these types of tutors genuinely understand the obstacles to learning that many students face.A classic example of this paradox is math tutoring. There are plenty of people out there who are naturally talented at mathbut often, the more talented the tutor, the less likely he/she is able to explain mathematical concepts to others. In the same way that great athletes rarely make great coaches, incredibly gifted mathematics students often make poor tutors because they possess an innate understanding of math that they cant quite explain to others. When a student doesnt understand the tutors explanation, the tutor will often become frustrated and resort to platitudes such as keep practicing and youll figure it out. Meanwhile, those of us who studied for 3 hours a night to barely squeak out an A- in AP Calculus can better understand the struggles that math students face..so we can teach you exactly how to overcome t hose struggles too. This is why the vast majority of McElroy Tutorings business comes from word-of-mouth: great scores are a plus, but there is no substitute for the recommendation of a trusted friend who saw great results with one of our tutors.So, without further ado, Ive outlined eight key characteristics that you should look for in any tutor you hire (in addition to the obvious requirement of intelligence). These are the same characteristics that I look for in all McElroy Tutoring tutors.1) EXPERIENCEObviously, as in any business, there is no substitute for experience. Parents and students have finally started to realize that the best tutors dont work for large tutoring companies such as Ivy West, Kaplan or Princeton Review. The reason is simple: these companies pay their tutors very little, so the best tutors dont stick around for very long or gain much teaching experience because they know they can make a better living on their own. Most of the truly talented tutors who work f or these companies soon quit after realizing that they can work for themselves, charge half as much, and make twice as much money! So that means that you should look for independent tutors, right? Yesbut make sure to do your research. Watch out for the tutor who claims 10 years of experience, because this could mean that he tutored his cousin one time 10 years ago, and hasnt had a student since! Obviously thats an extreme example, but this credibility gap is why it is often hard to find a good tutor through Google and other online sources, and the big-name tutoring companies are able to make such a killing from parents: its hard to know where to look and what time of tutor to look for. When interviewing potential tutors over the phone or in person, one should ask how many students the tutors have worked with, how many hours per week they tutor, and whether they can provide references. These stats are much better indicators of a tutors true tutoring experience, because many tutors ha ve full-time jobs and only work with students for an hour or two per week. Full-time tutors like myself are harder to find, but they are usually worth the extra cost because of their superior level of experience. The best tutors often work for smaller companies (such as my company, McElroy Tutoring) because they are paid well and have the freedom to shape their own curriculums. And its easier for parents because we can independently verify each tutors experience and results. If a tutor doesnt work out, no problemwell send you a new one until we find a good match. And as always, you will never have to pay for more than one lesson at a time.2) ENTHUSIASMParents and students should seek a tutor who is happy to show up to work every day, and who loves his/her job. This is why our tutor compensation packages are among the best in the countrywe believe that a happy, well-paid tutor is the best kind of tutor there is. I love my job, and I want everyone who works for McElroy Tutoring to lov e his/her job as well.3) COMMUNICATION SKILLSA skilled tutor knows that every student has unique needs, and that the lessons and explanations that work for one student may not work for another. Tutors should be able to communicate concepts to students in a variety of ways, using a range of analogies, metaphors and similes that relate to the students own talents and experiences. For example, I have a great deal of experience as an athlete and musician, so I use my knowledge in these two areas to help relate my lessons to students. A great essay can be compared to a jazz standard, for example, or the SAT-prep process can be compared to training for a marathon.4) PATIENCEPatience, patience, patience. Its a quality that tutors absolutely must possess, or they will not last very long in this business. Too many tutors believe that their performance is judged by the volume of material that they cover in each session. To the contrary, some of the most effective tutoring sessions are those w here the tutor does not move on until the student has completely absorbed what the tutor is trying to convey. Many high school students just want to get the lesson over with, so they rush through each problem like it is a race. Experienced tutors know that they cannot allow this to happen. They assure their students that the session will not end any sooner if they rush, and this encourages the student to slow down, to relax, and most importantly, to listen and learn.5) ADAPTABILITYGreat tutors have flexible schedules and flexible minds. They are able to craft lesson plans on the fly or make an adjustment if the student forgot his or her PSAT booklet or didnt get a chance to do the homework. They know that pre-set lessons and one size fits all methods dittos arent really much help, and that the use of these crutches is simply the sign of a lazy tutor (or an inexperienced one). Beware of any tutor who reads lessons from a textbook or a notebookif they understand the material inside an d out, they shouldnt have to consult the manual every 10 seconds.6) HONESTYBy the same token, if a tutor does not quite understand a question, he/she should not be embarrassed to admit it. Many tutors are afraid to admit any weakness or lack of knowledge, for fear of being fired or seen as incompetent. But the truth is that tutors who are able to admit their shortcomings are better respected by their clients. Students like it when you dont understand a problem every once in a whileit shows that you are human too! Elite tutors embrace the opportunity to learn something new, and they are skilled at thinking out loud so that they can work through these difficult questions together with the student. If they cannot figure out the answer to a question during the tutoring session, they write it down, take it home, and figure it out on their own time so they can explain the concept to the student during the next tutoring session.7) INTUITIONSkilled tutors have an innate ability to read thei r students attitudes and states of mind. An example of this is when a tutor explains a concept to a student, then asks (as they should) if the student has understood their explanation. Often, the student will say yes, but does not really understand. (Students sometimes say yes when they mean no.) Why does this happen? Well, for a number of reasons; sometimes students are embarrassed to admit lack of knowledge, or sometimes they are bored and just want to move along. But regardless of the reason, great tutors can usually tell from experience and from the students facial expressions that the student doesnt really get it. So they should either repeat the point in a different way or ask them to explain what was said back to the tutor to make sure they understood. Other times, a student will arrive at the lesson feeling exhausted from sports, homework, lack of sleep, or all three! Pushing tired students too hard will be counterproductive, so in these types of situations tutors should ass ign a low-stress activity or work on reviewing familiar concepts. On other days, students arrive at a session with a high energy level, so the tutors must meet this enthusiasm with their own, and give the student as much information as possible. Tutors should know when to give students a break by stopping for a moment to ask them about their lives or see how their classes are going. Knowing when to take short breaks and when to vary the material is one of the keys to a productive tutoring session. Of course, this type of sixth sense for reading students cannot be taught, and is only learned from years of tutoring experience.8) SINCERITYFinally, tutors should have a sincere desire to help students reach their fullest potential. Tutors must remember that the business of tutoring is not about themit is about the student. Prospective tutors: yes, its true that you can make a very good living as a tutor. But if youre only planning on becoming a tutor for the money, go become a real estat e broker instead. To become a great tutor you must care about your students success as much as your own! What makes a great tutor ?id? (Written in October 2008)Having tutored students privately since 1998, when I was a freshman at Harvard University (and full-time since 2002), I have seen many tutors come and go. Some tutors are very good at what they do, others not so good, and sometimes it's hard to tell exactly why this is so.Tutoring is a booming business, and every year more and more families hire private tutors. Tutoring allows naturally skilled teachers to hone their craft without having to earn a teaching certificate (which in some states is extremely difficult and time consuming, and often has very little to do with teaching) or presiding over an overcrowded classroom where discipline takes priority over learning. Great tutors can come from all walks of life, and they don't necessarily have prior teaching or tutoring experience (though experience is obviously helpful). It doesn't require a graduate degree or a laborious and bureaucratic certification process, so there are very few barriers to entry.On the other hand, it is often difficult for students and parents to find a skilled, competent tutor because there are no well-defined requirements or qualifications for tutors. Companies such as Princeton Review and Kaplan make a fortune off hiring college-age kids, sending them to a weekend training course, then calling them certified and charging over $100/hr for their services (while paying the tutors only around 15% of what they charge). Thankfully, parents are starting to wise up to this marketing scheme after being burned by too many negative experiences with these inexperienced tutors.(By contrast, instead of indoctrinating our tutors with a one size fits all method of teaching, we allow our tutors to develop their own teaching methods and styles. Of course, we do provide guidance, materials and training, but we know that tutoring is an art to be mastered, not a presentation to be memorized. This is why many of our tutors were former teachers or counselors in the local school syste m well before they became tutors. We also pay our tutors very well for their services, and keep close track of their experience as well as their results.)While the nationally-franchised test-prep companies are indeed quite unreliable, it's still not safe to assume that all smaller companies are trustworthy. Many smaller tutoring companies will boast that all of their tutors scored in the 99th percentile of a standardized test, or some similar claim, but I never understood the purpose of this policy (although I suspect it is simply used as an attempt to impress potential clients). The truth is that a great test score has very little to do with one's ability to actually teach others how to take that test. Parents: think about the students who had the best scores in your high school class on the SAT. In many cases, this person had little or no social skills, a Napoleon-Dynamite type character. Would you really want this person tutoring your child Only a handful of tutors nationwide can combine 99th percentile scores with 99th percentile tutoring/consulting skills (as a student of mathematics I will tell you that's approximately one in ten thousand), and that's why these rare tutors can command such high hourly rates and are so hard to find.This is the type of tutor I aspire to be, and I hope that all of our tutors aspire to bebut in a pinch I'll take personality and communication skills over extreme book smarts, especially for students below 90th percentile. (Note: students above 90th percentile should invest in a skilled tutor with very high scores (97-99th percentile) and many years' experience or the student will probably be bored and unsatisfied).Obviously, tutors should always have excellent academic qualifications, because it is imperative that they understand the material inside and out. But I'd much rather have a patient, personable and enthusiastic tutor who scored in the 95th percentile than a socially inept introvert who scored a perfect 2400 on the SA T! Sometimes, the best tutors are those who struggled in a subject, only to overcome those struggles, because these types of tutors genuinely understand the obstacles to learning that many students face.A classic example of this paradox is math tutoring. There are plenty of people out there who are naturally talented at mathbut often, the more talented the tutor, the less likely he/she is able to explain mathematical concepts to others. In the same way that great athletes rarely make great coaches, incredibly gifted mathematics students often make poor tutors because they possess an innate understanding of math that they can't quite explain to others. When a student doesn't understand the tutor's explanation, the tutor will often become frustrated and resort to platitudes such as keep practicing and you'll figure it out. Meanwhile, those of us who studied for 3 hours a night to barely squeak out an A- in AP Calculus can better understand the struggles that math students face..so we can teach you exactly how to overcome those struggles too. This is why the vast majority of McElroy Tutoring's business comes from word-of-mouth: great scores are a plus, but there is no substitute for the recommendation of a trusted friend who saw great results with one of our tutors.So, without further ado, I've outlined eight key characteristics that you should look for in any tutor you hire (in addition to the obvious requirement of intelligence). These are the same characteristics that I look for in all McElroy Tutoring tutors.1) EXPERIENCEObviously, as in any business, there is no substitute for experience. Parents and students have finally started to realize that the best tutors don't work for large tutoring companies such as Ivy West, Kaplan or Princeton Review. The reason is simple: these companies pay their tutors very little, so the best tutors don't stick around for very long or gain much teaching experience because they know they can make a better living on their own. M ost of the truly talented tutors who work for these companies soon quit after realizing that they can work for themselves, charge half as much, and make twice as much money! So that means that you should look for independent tutors, right? Yesbut make sure to do your research. Watch out for the tutor who claims 10 years of experience, because this could mean that he tutored his cousin one time 10 years ago, and hasn't had a student since! Obviously that's an extreme example, but this credibility gap is why it is often hard to find a good tutor through Google and other online sources, and the big-name tutoring companies are able to make such a killing from parents: it's hard to know where to look and what time of tutor to look for. When interviewing potential tutors over the phone or in person, one should ask how many students the tutors have worked with, how many hours per week they tutor, and whether they can provide references. These stats are much better indicators of a tutor's t rue tutoring experience, because many tutors have full-time jobs and only work with students for an hour or two per week. Full-time tutors like myself are harder to find, but they are usually worth the extra cost because of their superior level of experience. The best tutors often work for smaller companies (such as my company, McElroy Tutoring) because they are paid well and have the freedom to shape their own curriculums. And it's easier for parents because we can independently verify each tutor's experience and results. If a tutor doesn't work out, no problemwe'll send you a new one until we find a good match. And as always, you will never have to pay for more than one lesson at a time.2) ENTHUSIASMParents and students should seek a tutor who is happy to show up to work every day, and who loves his/her job. This is why our tutor compensation packages are among the best in the countrywe believe that a happy, well-paid tutor is the best kind of tutor there is. I love my job, and I want everyone who works for McElroy Tutoring to love his/her job as well.3) COMMUNICATION SKILLSA skilled tutor knows that every student has unique needs, and that the lessons and explanations that work for one student may not work for another. Tutors should be able to communicate concepts to students in a variety of ways, using a range of analogies, metaphors and similes that relate to the student's own talents and experiences. For example, I have a great deal of experience as an athlete and musician, so I use my knowledge in these two areas to help relate my lessons to students. A great essay can be compared to a jazz standard, for example, or the SAT-prep process can be compared to training for a marathon.4) PATIENCEPatience, patience, patience. It's a quality that tutors absolutely must possess, or they will not last very long in this business. Too many tutors believe that their performance is judged by the volume of material that they cover in each session. To the contrary, som e of the most effective tutoring sessions are those where the tutor does not move on until the student has completely absorbed what the tutor is trying to convey. Many high school students just want to get the lesson over with, so they rush through each problem like it is a race. Experienced tutors know that they cannot allow this to happen. They assure their students that the session will not end any sooner if they rush, and this encourages the student to slow down, to relax, and most importantly, to listen and learn.5) ADAPTABILITYGreat tutors have flexible schedules and flexible minds. They are able to craft lesson plans on the fly or make an adjustment if the student forgot his or her PSAT booklet or didn't get a chance to do the homework. They know that pre-set lessons and one size fits all methods dittos aren't really much help, and that the use of these crutches is simply the sign of a lazy tutor (or an inexperienced one). Beware of any tutor who reads lessons from a textbook or a notebookif they understand the material inside and out, they shouldn't have to consult the manual every 10 seconds.6) HONESTYBy the same token, if a tutor does not quite understand a question, he/she should not be embarrassed to admit it. Many tutors are afraid to admit any weakness or lack of knowledge, for fear of being fired or seen as incompetent. But the truth is that tutors who are able to admit their shortcomings are better respected by their clients. Students like it when you don't understand a problem every once in a whileit shows that you are human too! Elite tutors embrace the opportunity to learn something new, and they are skilled at thinking out loud so that they can work through these difficult questions together with the student. If they cannot figure out the answer to a question during the tutoring session, they write it down, take it home, and figure it out on their own time so they can explain the concept to the student during the next tutoring session.7) IN TUITIONSkilled tutors have an innate ability to read their students' attitudes and states of mind. An example of this is when a tutor explains a concept to a student, then asks (as they should) if the student has understood their explanation. Often, the student will say yes, but does not really understand. (Students sometimes say yes when they mean no.) Why does this happen? Well, for a number of reasons; sometimes students are embarrassed to admit lack of knowledge, or sometimes they are bored and just want to move along. But regardless of the reason, great tutors can usually tell from experience and from the student's facial expressions that the student doesn't really get it. So they should either repeat the point in a different way or ask them to explain what was said back to the tutor to make sure they understood. Other times, a student will arrive at the lesson feeling exhausted from sports, homework, lack of sleep, or all three! Pushing tired students too hard will be counterp roductive, so in these types of situations tutors should assign a low-stress activity or work on reviewing familiar concepts. On other days, students arrive at a session with a high energy level, so the tutors must meet this enthusiasm with their own, and give the student as much information as possible. Tutors should know when to give students a break by stopping for a moment to ask them about their lives or see how their classes are going. Knowing when to take short breaks and when to vary the material is one of the keys to a productive tutoring session. Of course, this type of sixth sense for reading students cannot be taught, and is only learned from years of tutoring experience.8) SINCERITYFinally, tutors should have a sincere desire to help students reach their fullest potential. Tutors must remember that the business of tutoring is not about themit is about the student. Prospective tutors: yes, it's true that you can make a very good living as a tutor. But if you're only plan ning on becoming a tutor for the money, go become a real estate broker instead. To become a great tutor you must care about your students' success as much as your own!